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I am a winner, I am a sinner but not a beginner like you always want and eanting but will nevFor a long time, I thought confidence equated to looking a certain way or getting praise from others. It was like chasing a mirage; the more sought validation, the more elusive real confidence seemed. One day I just sat down and asked myself, Why does it matter so much?' That moment shifted my perspective, and I realized I was letting external perceptions dictate my worth, which was exhausting and unsustainable I started by spending more time with myself, doing things that brought me joy irrespective of any outside approval, like painting and journaling. These activities seemed insignificant at first, but gradually, they helped me connect with an internal sense of fulfillment that wasn't tied to others' opinions Now, when I walk into a room, I focus on how I feel rather than how I appear. It's not a constant state of nirvana, but by setting personal goals based on what makes me feel alive, I've cultivated a foundation of confidence that's not dependent on er know what it's like to like to have what you are meant to have

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1 year ago

I am a winner, I am a sinner but not a beginner like you always want and eanting but will nevFor a long time, I thought confidence equated to looking a certain way or getting praise from others. It was like chasing a mirage; the more sought validation, the more elusive real confidence seemed. One day I just sat down and asked myself, Why does it matter so much?' That moment shifted my perspective, and I realized I was letting external perceptions dictate my worth, which was exhausting and unsustainable I started by spending more time with myself, doing things that brought me joy irrespective of any outside approval, like painting and journaling. These activities seemed insignificant at first, but gradually, they helped me connect with an internal sense of fulfillment that wasn't tied to others' opinions Now, when I walk into a room, I focus on how I feel rather than how I appear. It's not a constant state of nirvana, but by setting personal goals based on what makes me feel alive, I've cultivated a foundation of confidence that's not dependent on er know what it's like to like to have what you are meant to have

1 year ago

Legend! 👑

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