I know who you want to be at least not anymore with out that that confidence girl I can see the beauty that you don't see you deserve someone who doesn't call it quits not someone who puts you down like you're incompetent see now that's why you feel uncomfortable with all them compliments because you put up a wall because you don't know who's fake now you don't know who's going to build you up or make you break down you will not risk it you will not relive it and that's why you built a barrier so nobody visits and I realize it hurts and that this time it's worse but I know you were meant for more so just realize your worth because it's not determined by your man or even by the church it's determined inside yourself so just look inside and search you got more power than you think so don't you ever let a man Define you and I promise I will stand behind you see he was busy trying to burn you down with a couple matches but you were Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes and becoming a better you someone that you never knew it was something you were meant to do all the pain and the Flames make you stronger now when it gets in your way you will conquer all I speak is true and I really hope you believe it So when you stand in they fire just remember you're a phoenix